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After more than 25 years conducting court proceedings I thought it might be helpful to summarise some of the tips I give clients before they give evidence:
If you have prepared properly then just answer the questions.
Some homework may be necessary. For example: You will be asked about the cost of your proposed new housing needs. Why must you have that much money or why can you not live in this house or that house? Do your homework and check the market. Spend some time going through Rightmove or Primelocation or estate agents websites. Look at room sizes, location. Go see the area or view the property. Preparation is the key to all court hearings not just by your lawyer but by you as well.
You are there to give evidence on what you think as a parent is right for your child.
If your objections are against the other parent then be clear that your points are about their parenting and not about personal animosity since this will be found out.
The Judge is looking solely at the best interests of the child. What each parent wants for themselves is irrelevant.
I hope you found this helpful.
To discuss your particular circumstances please contact me:
Call me: 01223 421 051
or email me duaneplant@dmfl.co.uk
Duane Plant
Divorce Solicitor, Collaborative Lawyer and Family Mediator
Divorce, Mediation and Family Law
Duane is a Cambridge Divorce Solicitor, Family Mediator, Collaborative Lawyer and trainer who is passionate about changing the way families experience divorce and separation. Duane gives constructive advice so you can divorce with dignity. Connect with Duane on Google+